A friend of mine today said… Life after marriage is absolutely rubbish and that he is looking for good sex since the sixth day of his marriage to a beautiful and amazing girl…

This got me a little curious.. I used to think sex was an answer to a lot of issues.. it can make u believe there is love when there is none, it can make up for a lot and of course mess up a lot… but what is it about marriage that it’s so much more powerful that even sex becomes a lackluster chore, avoided at every cost…

I don’t believe in society and its rules, to be honest I don’t even believe in marriage but I do believe in making yourself happy in working towards that happiness. I do not understand why is it that getting married to a man makes you so much more focused on everything else that we forget about our most primal instincts. Or is it the manifestation of the society’s taboo on sex that we are scared that we won’t be able to sustain our respect in the eyes of the person with whom we are supposed to spend an eternity…

I have known people who have been perfectly happy and amazingly sexy in their previous lives wilt under this pressure… Unfortunately here the pressure is not to perform better but to hold back and let your life be a series of respectable encounters